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A guide to surviving Valentine’s Day for singletons and Divorcees - part 2

February 11, 2016 Brigette Bard

Remember Valentine’s Day is a commercial holiday not the ‘be all and end all of love’

Few couples love Valentine’s Day. It’s a chore. Let’s face it.

There is pressure to go out for dinner, to buy overpriced cards, flowers, presents, champagne, teddy bears, lingerie… I could go on. The costs can quickly mount up to hundreds of pounds and the people who are really laughing are the commercial card companies and merchandise providers.

That’s before we even discuss the predicament of the poor boyfriend / girlfriend who doesn’t invest as much money and thought as their sentimental partner. Or those who feel they are obliged to show their gratitude in the bedroom later

You could just buy yourself something lovely with the money you will invariably save…...

Use this as an excuse to ‘get on with the rest of your life’

If you’re looking for love, take some time on Valentine’s Day to think about a plan for the next year. Join a dating website, join a book group (or some other social event where you can mingle with singles), think about taking up yoga or a new sport. Think about being healthier and being the best ‘you’ you can be. It’s an old wives tale, but the romantic in me believes that if you’re really happy with your life – that’s when love will find you. Who am I to argue with that? Think about your job – does it really make you happy? Use this time to reevaluate your life. 

If you’re recently single / divorced (or perhaps not!) and have been dating - or having sex with – a few people, now’s a good time to have a STI test and get the all clear on your sexual health. You could have contracted viruses such as chlamydia, gonorrhea or HIV without knowing, so give yourself some peace of mind, get tested and move forward with a fresh start. You can find more information here 

Do something amazing

The ancient Greeks had four words for love. Eros (romance), philos (love for friends), storge (love for family) and agape (charity and love for the world). 

Why not show love in a different way this Valentine’s day? You could work in a soup kitchen, volunteer in a charity shop, do a bungee jump and raise some money for charity, donate blood if you can, have a sponsored something or just donate the money you would have spent on Valentine’s to a charity that’s close at heart. 

At BioSure, we’re campaigning to make HIV and AIDS a thing of the past and we work with several brilliant charities that are crying out for some help. 

The now-iconic AIDS ribbons are red to symbolize love and passion. There are loads of amazing HIV and AIDS charities that are in desperate need of volunteers, time, commitment or donations – click here for more information. 

This could really make a difference this Valentine’s Day. 

Missed part one of our Valentine’s Day guide? Read it here now 




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